so long came out. The first step towards change requires you to sit down and reflect on your values and what you want long term. I am continuing to build my relationship with my family and friends, and I am exploring new ways to serve in ministry and mission work. I thought my worth was based in part on how many girls I had slept with. I wanted to love one person as truly and deeply as I possibly could (see Unconditional Love ). I finally admitted to myself how deeply in love I was with her. After more reflection, I understood what my prior habits had really done. From what I know to be true in my life now, God's Word (i.e.
She has to be close with her family. It bothered me so much that I prayed about it when I wasn't even Christian yet (see. Jewelz and I had never sat down to really talk about it prior to our trip to Norway, and it was then. Emotional and Psychological Cheating ). I also never compared that to the things I thought I wanted in a lifelong partner.